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Question:i love my husband dearly and he loves me. but lately I can get enough sexual activity. It seems the older I get the more I want and the older he gets the less he wants it. We have agreed to look outside the marriage as a couple but not separately. I a

Neither have never had an affair. I just can't figure out why I can get enough of sex or any sexual activity from my partner or self.

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