Brenda Della Casa

Internationally published author of Cinderella Was a Liar and a columnist for Lifetime and Divorce360.com

Sue Blaney

Communications expert and author, dedicated to empowering parents of teenagers

Gay Hendricks

Founder of The Hendricks Institute

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Who Cares If It Turns Out Right?

Unless you're building a skyscraper or fixing a brain, there's room for error in your work. Sometimes, not forcing greatness/perfection leads to bigger and better ideas. So let go of whether a project is "right," and just let it be what it'll be.

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"I think I'm just so overwhelmed because I have so many changes that need to be made. I hope this helps. Thanks again!!" -Jennifer

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Negotiating to win

Sounds harsh, but it's not really. It's actually the name of a class I took some years ago. It was a company sponsored seminar designed to help us learn how to make better deals for the company.

The main take away was that the best deal was a win-win deal, where both parties walked away feeling good about the outcome. The way to get to the win-win is to listen to the needs of the other party ... truly putting yourself in their shoes, so you could design a deal that meets their needs without compromising yours.

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