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gourmetmama

Change is very hard for a lot of people.  It doesn't sound like your husband cares.  I would seriously talk to him about how it makes you feel when he's at the bars.  If he still doesn't try to make things better, give him an ultimatum!  Don't let your feelings fester.  That leads to resentment, and could eventually make you do something you'll regret.

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