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Question:What do you do when your Partner Dosn't trust?

I have been in a relationship with a truely wonderful wonman since April of 08. At one point we got engaged. The problem is she cannot trust - anyone. We are currently in a state of limbo. She say's we are still a couple but she has taken off my ring and protrays herself online as single (MySpace profile). She says she needs time and space to learn how to trust me. I have done nothing but be supportive of her, her career, and her two grown childern.

I'm at a loss as to what I'm supposed to do now.

Asked by dougcamden on 9/24/08 1 Answer»
falczuk

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Sounds like she needs some time to figure out what she wants in her life. You might break off contact for 30 days and then see if their is a mutual desire to start over.

Maybe things moved too quickly. Maybe she has some fundamental trust issues that need to be resolved before she is ready for a committed relationship

Answered by: falczuk on 9/24/08
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