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Kristy101081
Answer:Hey Deborah, I am the same way. I tend to be self-deprecating to be funny, but in a more personal context it pushes people away. I'm not saying anything...
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kristen
Answer:I'd say your time should be spent comforting/helping your sister. While you do care (and rightfully so!) about her fiance, she's really looking to you...
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runnindownadream
Answer:I work for myself so I have to reserve my hugs for the mailman and the Starbucks guy.
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lilliede81
Answer:As person grows, sometimes the relationships she"s formed in past years no longer "fit." You have come to a different place since your marriage. Now...
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runnindownadream
Answer:This is a tough one. You probably told her a lot about him - both positive and negative. When friends get into serious relationships they already tend...
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dragonfly3b
Answer:I totally agree. Men do have IMS! Every male I have ever known..including my sons..experience irritability (like woman) a couple times a month. Too...
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