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The Heart to Forgive

The Heart to Forgive

People say that they would never do it, and yet infidelity happens. What would you do if your partner cheated on you after decades of marriage? Could you find it in your heart to forgive? How long and difficult would the road to recovery be? What makes someone commit the ultimate betrayal?

These are the questions that author Mimi Gabriel addresses in her fictionalized memoir The Heart to Forgive: Reclaiming our Relationship After Infidelity. It aims to help others struggling to overcome infidelity through real-life stories told from the author's perspective as well as her husband, Les Gabriel.

While Mimi and Les were able to move past the infidelity her husband brought to their 27-year marriage, it’s important to ask yourself if you could do the same. Once you’ve decided on your position, discuss this with your significant other (ideally before you’re married—it can be part of a wedding planning discussion, along with other major deal-breakers, such as having kids and managing finances.) Even if you’ve already married, talking about the possibility of cheating and its effects can improve your relationship. Remember not to freak out if your partner’s response isn’t what you expected. Hear him/her out, put on your empathy hat, and see if you can’t see his/her point of view.

What’s your position on infidelity? Have you discussed it with your spouse or significant other? What was the outcome?

—Laura Lee Bloor

Posted: 1/2/09
WendyBaron

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RebeccaMiller

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MorrisAnn

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WendyBaron

I was hurt and heart broken by my husband,but i am so happy to have my husband back in my life again.!My name Wendy Baron, i live in Manchester, United Kingdom. A very big problem occurred in my marriage seven months ago, between me and my husband . so terrible that he took the case to court for a divorce. he said that he never wanted to stay with me again,and that he didn't love me anymore.So he packed out of the house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get him back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and he confirmed it that he has made his decision,and he never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my husband .So i explained every thing to him,so he told me that the only way i can get my husband back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for him too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow his advice. Then he gave me the email address of the spell caster whom he visited. TEMPLEOFLOVEANDPROSPERITY@GMAIL.COM. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address he gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my husband back the next day. What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me, and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my husband who didn't call me for the past 7 months, gave me a call to inform me that he was coming back. So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster. So, i will advice you out there if you have any problem contact Dr Frank Ojo, i give you 100% guarantee that he will help you.. Email him at: Templeofloveandprosperity@gmail.com ,or visit his Web site to know more about him: Link .

VAL3214

Thank you Dr.Agbazara for helping me to unite my relationship just within the period of 48 hours. I can still remember those period when i was having problems with my lover but today through the help of Dr.Agbazara i am having joy in my relationship. And if you are having problems in your relationship the right place to get it solved is at: agbazara@gmail.com OR you can give him a call on +2348104102662. By his help all your problems will be solved within 48 hours

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My Name is Christopher am from canada, am here to share this wonderful testimony for what Dr ogogodu has done for me and my family,i have been in a relationship with my lover for more than 3 years until she told me she is no longer interested in this relationship it was like i was dreaming because i never expected it from her because we both where really in love she made me to realise that true love exist,i tried my possible best to get her back but i never found a solution until this Godsent came called Dr ogogodu i got to know about Dr ogogodu when i was listen to the radio when people where giving testimonies on how Dr ogogodu has helped them in bring back there lover within 18 ,24 hours i was so happy that this was my hour of solution i got Dr ogogodu contact i contacted him and told him he laughed and said i should not worry that he assures me that within 18 hours will have my lover back, really as the 18 hours was completed was a call from my lover begging me that she never knew what came over her i was so happy and i accepted her back and i promise to share this testimonies as well because people might not have time to listen to the radio so i had to try and drop this on the internet where people can simple read this my good news am so happy today that my lover laura is back with the help of Dr ogogodu you can contact Dr ogogodu on ogogodutempleofsolution@gmail.com or cell number +2348078999655

aliciak

Well, I'm not married and unsure about the institution in general, but then again, I'm a very non-committal person. From an anthropological perspective, we're animals with needs! For better or worse, sometimes they trounce the sanctity of marriage, but in all things relationships, keeping communication open is key. Better yet, discuss these things BEFORE getting married, i.e., how does your partner feel about cheating, etc.

  • By aliciak
  • on 1/2/09 11:55 AM EST