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Guy Speak

Aren’t you tired of sounding like a broken record, asking the same question 10 times in a relationship and never getting a straight answer?

Well, maybe it’s you.

Your communication style, that is. If you’re trying to talk to your boyfriend or your husband and you don’t feel like you’re getting through, you might want to change your tactic a bit. Here are four of the more popular relationship questions and how you can rephrase them to get your message across.

DON’T ASK: Can you not slobber on me when you kiss me?
INSTEAD, SAY: I've been dreaming about you kissing me right there/like this. Want to reenact my dream?
WHY? Sex expert Ian Kerner, Ph.D., says that talking about sex and romance should be sexy, creative, fun and naughty, not instructional or critical.  

DON'T ASK: Why would you back out of a party if you promised we'd go?
INSTEAD, SAY: I thought we were planning on doing this, like we talked about.  
WHY? Saying "I" makes your communication clear, says author Jackie Black, Ph.D., as guys have a tendency to be distracted.

DON’T ASK: Would it kill you to take me out some place nice for a change?
INSTEAD, SAY: I really love our weekly burger and beers night and I think it would be fun to add something a little different to the mix, too. How about we try that new wine bar on 39th street?
WHY? Acknowledging first what you like softens a request for something different, says relationship expert Wendy Atterberry from The Frisky. Also, being careful to use the word "and" instead of "but" lets men know you don't want to completely change what he's doing, you just want to add to what he's doing.

DON’T ASK: You're not still dating other people, are you?
INSTEAD SAY: I'm really happy with how things are going between us and I'm ready to make things more exclusive. How would you feel about that?
WHY? Not only is the second question non-accusatory, it assertively and succinctly expresses how you're feeling and creates an opening for honest communication about your relationship, Atterberry explains.

Have you changed your communicatio style to accomodate your partner? How has it worked?

Posted: 1/8/09
erica20001

DIVORCE AND MARITAL BREAKTHROUGH

It all started when my husband cheated on me with another woman unknowing to him that the woman is a wizard, the woman castes a spell on my husband which made my husband change his feelings towards me and the kids and broke our 6 years marriage. i was confused and stressed because of the pains of being a single mother, when i called a friend and explained my marital challenges to her, she instructed and directed me to contact a great powerful spell caster called Dr. Ugo Wonders living in Florida. i contacted Dr. Ugo and explained my problems, he assured me his help and it was 100% guaranteed. i provided the materials for the spell and in 48 hours, after Dr Ugo Wonders of generalspelltemple@gmail.com finished casting the spell, my husband was free from the evil woman spell and he came back home to us a day after begging us to forgive him. i was so shocked and short of words and here i am today happily testifying so the world can know how this great man helped me with his real powerful spell.
To every one with marital problem, divorce issues, lost lover or any relationship related issues, you can contact Dr. Ugo wonders the ultimate spell caster via his email address generalspelltemple@gmail.com or call his mobile number directly on +13863369876

vivina

I made a promise to tell my testimony all over the globe once my man come back to me and my husband came just as DR abaka told me when he helped me. I made the right choice to have contacted DR abaka the great spell caster who is capable of helping you solve your problems. My man left me to suffer and i never believed that he will come back to me again but when i contacted DR abaka he assured me that my man will come again. he gave me some list of items to buy but i could not get them in my country and so i sent him the money and he bought the items and prepared the perfect love spell. My husband ran back to me in 3 days time begging for forgiveness THIS IS SO REAL AND GENUINE. NO SCAMS. I was so surprise that the spell worked just as he told me. This is so amazing and i want you to believe because DR abaka is so real and i urge you contact him now on his email so that he can also help you the way he helped me. email is Drabakaspelltemple@gmail.com and you can also contact him with his phone number on whats app +2349063230051 you can also check and contact him on htpp://Drabakaspelltemple.blogspot.com

  • By vivina
  • on 10/8/17 5:04 AM EST
lisa20001

MY EX IS FINALLY BACK TO ME

I was so depressed when my ex left me for another woman. it made me felt like i was not relevant and my heart and love life was seriously destroyed. i could not concentrate in anything i was doing. i went online and searched for help but could not find any genuine spell caster until i went to Ocala Florida to visit my aunt to ease the depression and loneliness. when i got to Florida, i explained to my aunt who then felt pity for me and told me the secret she have not told anyone about the success in her marriage with her man. she then took me to the temple of powerful Dr. Ugo Wonders whom i met and explained my problems to. he promised to help me because of my aunt. i trusted his words and provided him with the materials needed to help me get my ex back and to my greatest surprise, after 48 hours of casting the spell, my Ex cam back on his knees begging for me to forgive him. i was shocked and surprised at the magic. we are happily married now and everything is working fine with us.I promised Dr. Ugo that i will never keep this a secret because he brought back my life and my world and that i will hare my testimony to the general public.
My advice goes to any one out there who is emotionally depressed or having any similar relationship problem, to contact Dr. Ugo wonders the ultimate spell caster via his direct email generalspelltemple@gmail.com or call his temple line on +1 386-336-9876 he is the best in Florida....

kateclancy

Hi am mellisa i just got my ex boyfriend back through the help of my Dr Unity love spells
You can email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com ,you can also call him or add him on whats-app: +2348071622464 for your love spells and other forms of spells
He is very effective and cheap in cost.

WandaOscar

With great respect and honor to a real spell caster Dr Obasi who restored back my husband after a fight with him i contact him for a love spell and he cast it for me with-in the rang of 48 hours, and my husband was back home all thanks to him please my advise is for you all who have the same problem to contact him via obasispelltemple@gmail.com or call +2348145643630
Best Regards

Jodypeggy23

I was heartbroken when husband moved in with another woman abandoning our family. i needed to get him back because i love him so much and he was the first love of my life i try all way to get him back to the family but to know all was in anvil I had a spell to bring him back home and stop the affair he had with the new woman. i saw a testimony of a spell caster who help a girl called Millre Moore it was so amazing and i also give it a try so i contact him for help on how to get my husband back and he cast a love spell for me which i use in getting my husband back and now i am a happy woman. thank you so much Dr Osauyi For what you have done for me,i will not stop shearing your goodness to people out there for the good work you are doing.i will advice you out there if you have any problem contact Dr Osauyi, i give you 100% guarantee that he will help you, he hold the key to a brokering relationship visit him on

Osauyilovespellhelp@gmail.com or Osauyilovespell@yahoo.com

Whats-App Him: or call: +2347064294395

MissyStone

My husband left 2 months ago. A week after he left I found out he was dating someone who posted a picture of him kissing her in fb and that she “loves this man”. I am sick to my stomach. I want him back I do not want to be apart much less separated or divorced. I love my husband and I want to fight for him. I’m so scared of losing him. i knew my husband and i also know that some thing else was involve on this when i found out that this woman use a magic spell on my husband just to take him away from me, i was so devastating this as a result also destroyed my heart and soul coz i love my husband and i really want to get back with him i have seek for different counselling, nor could work out for me so i started given up on my husband coz there was no hope on getting back with him. one faithful night after my work, i got home trying to search for a friend of my of facebook, i come across a love page on how to get ex back, fix your broken marriage and stop divorced i was so happy want i found out some wonderful comment and testimony of a real spell caster who has help a lot of people to get their husband back so i order for an urgent love spell to get my husband, i contacted him via.. happylovespell2@gmail.com i did all he ask of me 2 days after the spell my husband show up at my office begging me to forgive him. i never believed i could have my husband back again we live happily now he show me love, care, also promise not to leave me again all thanks to Dr happy a real truthful spell caster plz if you have any problem similar to my do not hesitate to contact him Link for more details email.....happylovespell2@gmail.com or add him on whats-app +2348133873774

donna500

THE MIGHTY SPELL CASTER THAT HELPED ME SOLVED MY URGENT CRITICAL RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM.
I dont know how to really thank Dr. Keke Odin for what he did for me. My Name is Anita Kelly from Los Angeles, i was dating this man who i loved very much for over four years now without any problem in our relationship. so at a point he changed so suddenly after returning from the office and started behaving so strangely. it even got to the extent that he told me it was over and i should never call him again. This was a person that loved me with everything that he had. When i told my friend jenny what happened, she introduced me to a great spell caster called DR KEKE ODIN, the chief priest of all spell caster. At first sight this man told me all my problems that it was his secretary that used a charm on him. Dr KEKE ODIN told me not to worry that he will help me solve the problem. The following day, i was in the house in a sober mood when i first received a message from my boyfriend that he was very sorry and before i dropped the phone, he called me again to say he is on his way home and that he was truly sorry for everything. To my greatest surprise, one week later he engaged me and we got married. All Thanks to KEKE ODIN. You can contact him through the following means

Email: greatkekespelltemple@gmail.com

Mobile Number: +1 386-336-9876

AlexPatricia

Good new my bf is back.. I was having serious relationship problems with my bf and it had has gotten to a point of him moving out to his friend’s apartment. everything got worse because he started going to bars and strip clubs frequently with his friend, getting drunk and passing out. He always threatens me on phone whenever I call him because of all the bad advises that his friend has given him. I really love him and we had been dating for 8 years which gave us a beautiful daughter. I had also lost a lot of money on therapists until I was introduced to Dr happy by a friend whom he helped to marry her childhood bf; this gave me total confidence and strength to get him back. I did all he asked and a day after the spell my bf called me and rushed back home, things just changed between us emotionally. He has a job and stopped drinking and keeping irrelevant friends. It’s a miracle I never believed was possible because I had lost all hope until I found Dr happy. So that’s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe. Please my advise to every one looking for relationship help, marriage help, get and fix your broken home, is to contact Dr happy the real Africa spell caster now on.............. happylovespell2@gmail.com for more about him and his love spell how it work fast, visit his web site..... Link and for mobile call or..... Whats-app messages add him on +2348133873774.......

JuniaNoel

Hi,
I really appreciate your inputs on my situation Dr happy and what could I do with-out you. Thank you in advance.
I was in a relationship with this guy for the past 1 and a half year.. We became close real fast and were very serious about each other… he’s German and was in the country for her internship.. he left after first 6 months and came back after a couple of months.. he said that he had come down for me.. WE started living – in.. We discussed faMILY, KIDS, future, moving to EU together.. everything was going good until of last August when I started to get jealous about his moves, I got controlling and things started to get worse.. we spoke about it a lot of times where he expressed how he felt but I was not able to understand why I was doing that.. During our discussion I would always say I did .. This February he called it off and since then I have been a mess.. I gave it a lot of thought and realised my mistakes and why I was doing it.. I tried talking to him .. begged him.. pleaded him .. but he says that he has lost all his feelings for me and would never get back to me..I was in my knees praying looking for help, them i fine a comment online how a spell caster help to restored relationship get ex lover back, ” so i decided to give a try coz i love my boyfriend so much. so i contacted Dr happy Link tell him all my problem and he gave me 100%guarantee that i will have my boyfriend back after the spell so i was gifted and lucky to have contacted him i did every thing he ask of me and to my greatest surprise a day after the spell my boyfriend call me and apology for what he did to me and ask for my forgiveness to come back again for me, we both are happily living together again plz Contact him urgently via.........
happylovespell2@gmail.com
or add him on whats-app +2348133873774
Junia Noel from USA

JewelCarol02

hey,
my bf and I were in a relationship for 4 years.
and he I caught him cheating with another girl for 2 months. I was devastated. and I was in such a mental condition, that I called his parents up and said everything. I pleaded him and asked him what went wrong in our relationship. but he denied to tell me anything. he said he want breakup. and his new gf called me up each day and abused me verbally. I was trying to move on. but the love i have for him was too much. i was frustrated. looking for help to get my bf back one day looking on my internet i come across a product of a page and graphic of love spell on how to get ex back,stop your husband for cheating, restored broken marriage and stop divorced also get your wife back. so i have no choice coz i love my bf and i want him back from that woman i directly give a contact on this product graphic page, and to the promise of it,after the love spell my bf call me,text me and i I replied him as I would never accept him. but he continues begging seeking for apology. for what he did to me, meanwhile my bf sends me friend requests on Facebook… and calls me up the other day.and i respond to him, with this i was so very happy that my bf really change for the bad he was to see me back as his only one gf so that is how i gave him another chance? all thanks to this product page and graphic love spell coz it really help and work for me i promise to keep sharing his page if you have any similar problem as my, have a hard time of getting your ex bf back, ex gf back, save your marriage home, i will advise you to try this same, on Dr happy product page and graphic love spell directly on his email
happylovespell2@gmail.com
Web site:http://happyspelltemple.webs.com/
or add him on whats-app +2348133873774
Jewel Carol from Atlanta Georgia

donna500

i want to say a very big thanks and appreciation to Dr. Keke Odin the chief priest of all spell casters worldwide for bringing back my husband who left i and the kids for almost three months within the space of two days after following all instruction given to me. i am very much grateful for restoring peace in my marital home, and i pray God almighty give you the strength and wisdom to continue helping more people having similar relationship and marital problem like mine. for help you can contact him now through his email and mobile number below

Email: greatkekespelltemple@gmail.com

Mobile Number: +1 386-336-9876

website: Link

MICHELLE5001122

HOW TO GET YOUR EX BACK WITHOUT PANIC
I am Michelle from San Francisco. i want to testify about powerful Dr keke Odin for saving my relationship.I must be one of the few who don’t have a trouble showing and telling someone how grateful I am for making my relationship a melodious and smooth relationship. I have been trying to be more positive about my relationship with my boyfriend, it seems like it has taken forever. Another lady took my Fiancee away from me and they both relocated. i cried and searched for him to come back but he refused to take my calls nor return my messages. My friend introduced me to a powerful spell caster called Dr Keke Odin who helped me cast a very powerful love spell that brought back my Fiancee in 24 hours. i was amazed and surprised when my fiancee called to beg me for forgiveness all because of the powerful love spell of Dr Keke Odin. dont fail to Contact Dr Keke through the following means if you have any Marrital or Relationship problem. his contact information are

Email: greatkekespelltemple@gmail.com

Mobile Number: +1 386-336-9876

website: Link

MICHELLE500

HOW TO GET YOUR EX BACK WITHOUT PANIC
I am Michelle from San Francisco. i want to testify about powerful Dr keke Odin for saving my relationship.I must be one of the few who don’t have a trouble showing and telling someone how grateful I am for making my relationship a melodious and smooth relationship. I have been trying to be more positive about my relationship with my boyfriend, it seems like it has taken forever. Another lady took my Fiancee away from me and they both relocated. i cried and searched for him to come back but he refused to take my calls nor return my messages. My friend introduced me to a powerful spell caster called Dr Keke Odin who helped me cast a very powerful love spell that brought back my Fiancee in 24 hours. i was amazed and surprised when my fiancee called to beg me for forgiveness all because of the powerful love spell of Dr Keke Odin. dont fail to Contact Dr Keke through the following means if you have any Marrital or Relationship problem. his contact information are

Email: greatkekespelltemple@gmail.com

Mobile Number: +1 386-336-9876

website: Link

SHIRLEY127

Hello I am Shirley Morris ,I am out here to spread this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex husband back.I was going crazy when my husband left me and my two kids for another woman last month, But when i met a friend that introduced me to Dr Keke Odin the great messenger to the oracle of Great Keke Spell Temple. I narrated my problem to Dr Keke Odin about how my ex Husband left me and my two kids and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it was been done,24 hours later, My Ex Husband called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me and the kids before now and one week after my Husband called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in a very big company here in USA were i needed to work as the managing director.. you can contact Dr Keke Odin through the following mean

Email: greatkekespelltemple@gmail.com

Mobile Number: +1 386-336-9876

website: Link

AndrewPowell

I've been really depress and been in so much pains after my wife left me. Our son is just 8 without her mother. Life can be very displeasing especially when i try every way possible to get her back and all i got is been scammed by this fake Spiritual Spell Casters.... I'm new on this spell stuff but after talking and chatting with Dr. Trust then i realize he is the man i can completely trust. I know there are many of you out there who are in the same problem too and also looking for a real spell caster that can give wealth and bring back your love again.. Dr. Trust is real and in just 2 days of his spell my whole story got turn around and things started to be as before.

I followed his advice and Spell instructions, and fortunately, I'm a success story! Kathy is back now and im so glad our son got to see her mother again. Now we're better than ever. Dr. Trust spell really worked and he has been very helpful, and I can't believe it worked so well! I'm honestly, still in shock! :) If you feel like your relationship is salvageable, and you need help contact him .. It never too late ((Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com or Ultimatespellcast@gmail.com WEB SITE: Link OR CALL +2348156885231

Debbi03

This has really worked and I am proud to testify of it. I saw a post on how a lady got her man back by Dr. Trust who helped her to get her Ex Husband back. My relationship was crashed down for 3 good years and some months. Although I never believed in spiritual work I reluctantly tried him because I was desperate but to my greatest surprise Dr. Trust helped me to bring back my man and now my relationship is now perfect just as he promised. Getting your ex back permanently spell does not only bring back someone you love back,but it will also re-ignite your lovers feelings for you to be as happy with that person as possible. My man now treats me like a queen and always say he love me all the time. If you are passing through difficulties in your relationship Email him for urgent help.

Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com or Ultimatespellcast@gmail.com
websit: Link
Call +2348156885231

  • By Debbi03
  • on 9/16/16 5:57 PM EST
Debbi03

This has really worked and I am proud to testify of it. I saw a post on how a lady got her man back by Dr. Trust who helped her to get her Ex Husband back. My relationship was crashed down for 3 good years and some months. Although I never believed in spiritual work I reluctantly tried him because I was desperate but to my greatest surprise Dr. Trust helped me to bring back my man and now my relationship is now perfect just as he promised. Getting your ex back permanently spell does not only bring back someone you love back,but it will also re-ignite your lovers feelings for you to be as happy with that person as possible. My man now treats me like a queen and always say he love me all the time. If you are passing through difficulties in your relationship Email him for urgent help.

Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com or Ultimatespellcast@gmail.com
websit: Link
Call +2348156885231

  • By Debbi03
  • on 9/16/16 5:57 PM EST
WendyBaron

Hi everyone, I am so excited to share this with you all, about this powerfully and genuine spell caster who save my marriage and brought my husband back to me today. I am Natasha Hayes by name and i reside here in London, United Kingdom. I'm happily married to a lovely and caring husband ,with two kids.A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my husband .so terrible that he took the case to court for a divorce.he said that he never wanted to stay with me again,and that he didn't love me anymore.So he packed out of the house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get him back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and he confirmed it that he has made his decision,and he never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my husband .So i explained every thing to him,so he told me that the only way i can get my husband back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for him too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow his advice. Then he gave me the email address of the spell caster whom he visited.{Unityspelltemple@gmail.com}. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address he gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my husband back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my husband who didn't call me for the past{7}months,gave me a call to inform me that he was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and my children. Then from that day,our marriage was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster Dr Unity. So, i will advice you out there, if you have any problem contact Dr Unity and i guarantee you that he will help you and you will be the next to share your testimony to every one in the world!!. Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com or call him on +2348072370762 and you can also visit his website for more details: Link. thanks to Dr Unity please share this with your friends..

WendyBaron

I was hurt and heart broken by my husband,but i am so happy to have my husband back in my life again.!My name Wendy Baron, i live in Manchester, United Kingdom. A very big problem occurred in my marriage seven months ago, between me and my husband . so terrible that he took the case to court for a divorce. he said that he never wanted to stay with me again,and that he didn't love me anymore.So he packed out of the house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get him back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and he confirmed it that he has made his decision,and he never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my husband .So i explained every thing to him,so he told me that the only way i can get my husband back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for him too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow his advice. Then he gave me the email address of the spell caster whom he visited. TEMPLEOFLOVEANDPROSPERITY@GMAIL.COM. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address he gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my husband back the next day. What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me, and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my husband who didn't call me for the past 7 months, gave me a call to inform me that he was coming back. So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster. So, i will advice you out there if you have any problem contact Dr Frank Ojo, i give you 100% guarantee that he will help you.. Email him at: Templeofloveandprosperity@gmail.com ,or visit his Web site to know more about him: Link .

VAL3214

Thank you Dr.Agbazara for helping me to unite my relationship just within the period of 48 hours. I can still remember those period when i was having problems with my lover but today through the help of Dr.Agbazara i am having joy in my relationship. And if you are having problems in your relationship the right place to get it solved is at: agbazara@gmail.com OR you can give him a call on +2348104102662. By his help all your problems will be solved within 48 hours

VAL

CANADA

sarahcoko

After reading rave reviews on blogs, I found testimonies about Dr. Wakina so interesting. I emailed Doc. on October 15, begging him to piece back together my shattered heart, I have been in somewhat of an emotional crisis over a man I love so much for 2 years now. I met him 4 years ago at my workplace, it was love at first sight, I couldn’t take my eyes off him, and I have always felt there was a strong connection between us before we started dating.

We have always had our miscommunication mishaps along the way which have not helped the romantic side develop, but I have always felt there was something holding him back when he started acting wired, before we broke up. I tried moving on and forget about my feelings for him, but I can’t, deep inside, I know I care and love him.

Story short; Dr. Wakina cast the spell that brought us back again and made our love to last forever, we have been deep in love since then. Am so happy to also share my testimony and to recommend Dr. Wakina via his email dr.wakinalovetemple@gmail.com

thankslove

My Name is Christopher am from canada, am here to share this wonderful testimony for what Dr ogogodu has done for me and my family,i have been in a relationship with my lover for more than 3 years until she told me she is no longer interested in this relationship it was like i was dreaming because i never expected it from her because we both where really in love she made me to realise that true love exist,i tried my possible best to get her back but i never found a solution until this Godsent came called Dr ogogodu i got to know about Dr ogogodu when i was listen to the radio when people where giving testimonies on how Dr ogogodu has helped them in bring back there lover within 18 ,24 hours i was so happy that this was my hour of solution i got Dr ogogodu contact i contacted him and told him he laughed and said i should not worry that he assures me that within 18 hours will have my lover back, really as the 18 hours was completed was a call from my lover begging me that she never knew what came over her i was so happy and i accepted her back and i promise to share this testimonies as well because people might not have time to listen to the radio so i had to try and drop this on the internet where people can simple read this my good news am so happy today that my lover laura is back with the help of Dr ogogodu you can contact Dr ogogodu on ogogodutempleofsolution@gmail.com or cell number +2348078999655

NewLeaf

Although it's sometimes hard to remember to say things in a loving, supportive, non-accusatory way when all I really want to do is stamp my feet and bite my husbands head off, it does work! I just have to remember to take a long, deep breath and think before I speak. The result often amazes me. And, the more often I do it, the easier it gets, like creating any new habit. Thanks for the reminder.

  • By NewLeaf
  • on 1/29/09 11:34 AM EST
prowlinpassion

DON'T ASK: Why don't you look at me when I am talking to you?
INSTEAD KNOW: Through studies its been proven that men are listening without looking, so don't feel ignored when we don't 'look' while listening.