this is for my friend, how can I make him stop blaming himself?
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He was married for 25 yearsand she left him for someone eles, he keeps saying he could of should of done something different, I dont belive that , she fell out of love but he doesnt get it.. Can anyone help??
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I know from personal experience that it does take two people to make it work. He might be beating himself up, but chances are, they both probably contributed to it in way or another. Ultimately, you can't make someone love you.
you have to try and make him understand that everyone goes through life changes and that sometimes people grow a part in life and that it takes two people to make a marriage work and it takes two to make it fail as well
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