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Question:How long does it normal take to overcome the sense of loss after your divorce, even if you're the one who wanted it in the first place?

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Lisa0368

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I know in my case it took me five years to overcome my sense of loss - it is just like losing a loved one to death. Sometimes finding another person to share your life with helps in the healing process as well.

Answered by: Lisa0368 on 5/1/08
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