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angieree

Question:My husband keeps telling me he wants a divorce (years now), but does nothing to act on it. He wants me to start the process so he can say that I did it. He is verbally abusive, and all because of something that happened before we were married. He said

The issue driving this is that his brother and I had a semi fling back when I was 17. Although I really wanted my husband, I settled for his brother, thinking we didnt have a chance. We never actually had sex, but came close. Then, when I had the chance with my husband, I took it (at the time, he really didnt know about his brother and I). Then I get pregnant. At first he stayed away, but came back to be a father, and here we are 3 kids, 13 years later, and married. This has been an issue for the past 13 years. Soemtimes he says it is the reason we can never work, and then he says that it doesnt matter since we never had sex. no matter what I do, he says he will never trust someone who can be with 2 brothers, and acts like he hates me so much. I'm torn becuase I can understand why it would bother him, on the other hand, why did he let our relationship go on for so long, verbally abusing me and making me think I am sucha horrible person. Help!

Asked by angieree on 10/5/11 11 Answers»
katherine00

Answer:

After being in relationship with Wilson for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that don't believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I meant a spell caster called Dr Zuma zuk and I email him, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: spiritualherbalisthealing@gmail.com or call him +2349055637784 you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS'

Answered by: katherine00 on 12/1/16
peggygoldd

Answer:

A GREAT SPELL CASTER THAT HELP ME BRING BACK MY EX LOVER.

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Answered by: peggygoldd on 4/19/16
peggygoldd

Answer:

A GREAT SPELL CASTER THAT HELP ME BRING BACK MY EX LOVER.

What a wonderful and a straight forward spell caster that has brought back joy and happiness into my life!!! Am giving this testimony because am so happy, I want to thank Dr. Ken for the great thing He has done in my life , He brought happiness back to my life, I never believed in spell casters until my life fell apart when my lover of 6 years decided to call it quit almost when we wanted to get married. I was so emotional breakdown to the extent i could not do anything reasonable again, after 3months in pain before an old friend of mine introduced me to a spell caster on line called Dr Ken, this was after I have been scammed by various fake spell casters. I was introduced to Dr Ken a true Spell Caster. In less than 38 hours i saw wonders, my lover came back to me and my life got back just like a completed puzzle, and after 1month later we got married and it was just like a dream to me because i thought i had lost him forever. Thank you Dr. Ken for helping me but most of all, Your Honesty and Fast Accurate Results. EMAIL HIM FOR HELP: supersolutionhome1@gmail.com or supersolutionhom@yahoo.com or through his number +2348074433380. You can also read my testimony on my blogger: Link

Answered by: peggygoldd on 4/19/16
legho150

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I am very grateful to Dr. Bully The Mighty spell caster from India for helping me in my problem, I was almost losing hope in life when my lover of 4 years ended our relationship without any reason and I consulted an old friend of mine and explain my situation to her and she said she was in same situation 2weeks back but a wonderful man who was sent to help people helped her out of the problem and I thought it was all a joke and I ask her if it was real and she said if it wasn't real so how did her lover come back to her, then I decided to give Dr. Bully a try because I had nothing to loose in trying and I contacted him on his email address which is bullytemple@yahoo.com and he replied to my email very well.. and to cut the long story short Dr. Bully brought back my Lover in 48 hours.. I'm very happy he brought my man back to me and my lover promise that he will never and ever leave me again. Thanks to Dr. Bully of bullytemple@yahoo.com

Answered by: legho150 on 9/24/15
legho150

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I am very grateful to Dr. Bully The Mighty spell caster from India for helping me in my problem, I was almost losing hope in life when my lover of 4 years ended our relationship without any reason and I consulted an old friend of mine and explain my situation to her and she said she was in same situation 2weeks back but a wonderful man who was sent to help people helped her out of the problem and I thought it was all a joke and I ask her if it was real and she said if it wasn't real so how did her lover come back to her, then I decided to give Dr. Bully a try because I had nothing to loose in trying and I contacted him on his email address which is bullytemple@yahoo.com and he replied to my email very well.. and to cut the long story short Dr. Bully brought back my Lover in 48 hours.. I'm very happy he brought my man back to me and my lover promise that he will never and ever leave me again. Thanks to Dr. Bully of bullytemple@yahoo.com

Answered by: legho150 on 9/24/15
legho150

Answer:

I am very grateful to Dr. Bully The Mighty spell caster from India for helping me in my problem, I was almost losing hope in life when my lover of 4 years ended our relationship without any reason and I consulted an old friend of mine and explain my situation to her and she said she was in same situation 2weeks back but a wonderful man who was sent to help people helped her out of the problem and I thought it was all a joke and I ask her if it was real and she said if it wasn't real so how did her lover come back to her, then I decided to give Dr. Bully a try because I had nothing to loose in trying and I contacted him on his email address which is bullytemple@yahoo.com and he replied to my email very well.. and to cut the long story short Dr. Bully brought back my Lover in 48 hours.. I'm very happy he brought my man back to me and my lover promise that he will never and ever leave me again. Thanks to Dr. Bully of bullytemple@yahoo.com

Answered by: legho150 on 9/24/15
eboehispellcaster

Answer:

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Answered by: eboehispellcaster on 8/24/15
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