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Question:If you're newly divorced, do you think you'll ever marry again? Do you want to?

Asked by VictoriaB on 2/5/08 4 Answers»
lissab75

Answer:

My divorce is not yet final, my husband of seven years started having an affair in March. I believed that I had the story book romance, he treated me as if I was the love of his life. Until the day he met her, we spent every single available minute together. My world was scattered one night when he decided not to come home. So in the beginning, I did not think I want to be married again. Once I started the healing process I realized that I can not let this marriage decide my future. I also realized that I can not penalize every man for the faults of one. If I let what whapped in this marriage stay with me it will decide my future not me. I feel as if I deserve happiness and I made the wrong choice the first time but I truly believe in my heart that one door does not close without a better one opening.

Answered by: lissab75 on 8/14/08
happykat

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My divorce is not yet final we've been separated since October. I don't think I want to be married again I would like to find a person to have a relationship with but I enjoy being on my own for the most part. Come and go as I please,...

Answered by: happykat on 5/20/08
tclemmons

Answer:

I say no, which means I'll probably be married within the year. This is the way things go for me.

I really hated being married. The guy was fine, the relationship dynamic was not. I don't like being the wife.

Answered by: tclemmons on 2/26/08
airica17

Answer:

I think so. I want to find someone that I am completely compatible with and I think I will someday. I don't want to find that someone right now. I want to take some time out for myself, since I've never done that before. It's exciting not knowing what lies ahead for me. It's the unknown.

Answered by: airica17 on 2/12/08
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