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sundaygirl

Change is good even if it seems uncomfortable. This just means your needing to look at things differently.

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marah2448

Change is a good thing and it does feel uncomfortable. Since I have grown closer to GOD, I know better not to lower my standards to be with someone anymore. After my experience with men in past relationships, I have taken the good times, remember the not so good and not to repeat history again. I have wised up so much, it feels great but a little awkward when you learn to let GOD guide you in the right direction.

Sometimes temptation is there to put myself back in the same behavior before but I stay strong, pray, journal and keep GOD in life because bad behavior is not okay. I promise myself and GOD himself, I will not fornincate again because you lose your blessing when you disobey , so far I am doing great. I want a man that is going to love me for all the right reasons, honesty and GOD's love. Finding romance requires patients, so now I am willing to wait.