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muse78

Question:how can i love myself enough and reclaim my power so i can feel worthy to date the one I'm attracted to?

how do i regain my power when it was stripped growing up in a home where I was cut down, shut up ,and not nurtured.

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Answer:

Focus on yourself. Try a new hobby or find a group that does something you love to do or would like to try. There are websites like meetup.com that helps you connect with various groups like going out to eat, movies, photography, etc. Try learning a new dance or join a new gym. Do something that makes you happy. In time, you'll find yourself getting stronger and loving the new you more than you ever could.

Answered by: Cubsfan1 on 9/26/10
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