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muse78

Question:how can i love myself enough and reclaim my power so i can feel worthy to date the one I'm attracted to?

how do i regain my power when it was stripped growing up in a home where I was cut down, shut up ,and not nurtured.

Asked by muse78 on 4/4/10 3 Answers»
WendyBaron

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I was hurt and heart broken by my husband,but i am so happy to have my husband back in my life again.!My name Wendy Baron, i live in Manchester, United Kingdom. A very big problem occurred in my marriage seven months ago, between me and my husband . so terrible that he took the case to court for a divorce. he said that he never wanted to stay with me again,and that he didn't love me anymore.So he packed out of the house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get him back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and he confirmed it that he has made his decision,and he never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my husband .So i explained every thing to him,so he told me that the only way i can get my husband back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for him too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow his advice. Then he gave me the email address of the spell caster whom he visited. TEMPLEOFLOVEANDPROSPERITY@GMAIL.COM. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address he gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my husband back the next day. What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me, and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my husband who didn't call me for the past 7 months, gave me a call to inform me that he was coming back. So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster. So, i will advice you out there if you have any problem contact Dr Frank Ojo, i give you 100% guarantee that he will help you.. Email him at: Templeofloveandprosperity@gmail.com ,or visit his Web site to know more about him: Link .

Answered by: WendyBaron on 3/11/16
Leanblackbelt

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I have found that repeating affirmations such as "I am a beautiful, powerful, sexy woman" in concert with positive visualisation have worked very well to build up my self esteem. When I started saying this affirmation I had to fake it until it became a reality. Now I know it to be true. I have struggled with a poor self image for most of my life but now I feel that any man would be very lucky to have a woman like me by his side. If a man does not fancy me, that's ok. I know I can't be everyone's cup of tea.

Answered by: Leanblackbelt on 7/16/15
Cubsfan1

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Focus on yourself. Try a new hobby or find a group that does something you love to do or would like to try. There are websites like meetup.com that helps you connect with various groups like going out to eat, movies, photography, etc. Try learning a new dance or join a new gym. Do something that makes you happy. In time, you'll find yourself getting stronger and loving the new you more than you ever could.

Answered by: Cubsfan1 on 9/26/10
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