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Question:Why do I always run into guys that just don't want a relationship?

I have been single now for 2 years and have been dating a lot recently. I'm kind of feeling down about myself, I keep meeting new people, who seem really interested at first, but after a few dates I always get that 'I'm not ready for a relationship' talk, every time!! I'm starting to think there's something wrong with me that doesn't make me relationship material to these men.. How can I get out of this pattern as I am starting to lose all hope? Please help!!

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