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iamstacielee

Question:how does one conjure up the courage to end a year long relationship with someone that i can see myself with but not until im ready?

Asked by iamstacielee on 10/22/08 1 Answer»
aliciak

Answer:

Do you mean you can see yourself married to this person, but aren't ready yet? Is the other person ready, you think? Maybe you need a cool-down/break period...and not a full-blown break up.

I think communicating your feelings is top priority, even though this is hard! Especially if you think your sig. other is not on the same page.

Answered by: aliciak on 11/1/08
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