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Question:How do you get over NOT thinking about your significant other AFTER a breakup?

Asked by fots5_22_23 on 5/5/08 2 Answers»
mrduve

Answer:

Spend more time with happy friends.
Exercise and get lots of rest.
Eat a healthy diet.
Seek happy stories, movies, news, songs...
Love yourself and others. Give. Share.
Believe this will pass and let it go.

Answered by: mrduve on 5/7/08
DIAJAMS

Answer:

Start a new project. I started attending classes out side my home and it has really helped me. I take classses to help others with mental illness.

Answered by: DIAJAMS on 5/6/08
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