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I am at the one month post break up stage, he left the relationship, not me. I cut off contact but my mood has gone between relief, to deep depression, to now intense anger. I try to talk to friends, busy myself, but I'm still experiencing mood swings.
I was in a completion with my husband’s ex, even before we got married, I thought she might stop interfering in our affairs after marriage, but she continued, spreading rumors about my past, calling me names. She vowed to cause breakup to our 2-year-old marriage, because my husband preferred me over her, she was so jealous and decided to consult a priest who caused our breakup on March 17. She was so evil that she don’t even hide her evil acts, after opening up to me that she caused our split, and laugh at me as she tries to take back my husband.
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My wife said the first time she was caught making out with a co-worker was that “she was being pushed by the devil”. She fakes business vacations on several occasion just to spend private time alone with her co-worker. She plays her game so tight that I had to employ informant to always track every of her moves. I didn’t believe most of the results, but I have always been suspecting until when I was brought to witness her actions. It was so painful than I was expected. We had serious issues that almost lasted a year and she can’t stop seeing the guy. I thought of divorce, but it might affect our kids and I don’t know any other means to employ that will make her stop. I was recommended to search blogs for spell casters that can help, that’s when I fell in love with comments I read about Dr.Wakina on Link and some testimonies on Link before I was convinced enough to contact him via email@example.com I didn’t expect much from him, but his presence in my life gave me hope, he did his thing and cast the spell that united our spirit and soul, the spell changed our feelings and thoughts, she no longer have feelings for another man except me for months now, we thinks more about our future together with the kids and we called dr. wakina to thank him as a family, I was blessed and touched for what he is doing. I promised to share this testimony and his email to help save families who are having crisis. Contact him via firstname.lastname@example.org
What you are experiencing are normal stages of a breakup. Eventhough you feel relief and maybe even that it is for the best,it's a loss. So you will literally grieve and then go through periods of anger and sadness. In time, it will pass. I would suggest getting out more and learning ways to comfort and relax yourself. Try not to dwell in what's past. I wish you the best :)
Wow I am so bad at keeping up with this site :)
that was a good thing to do to get out and enjoy yourself. At the end of the day I think we have to make ourselves happy regardless if we have a significant other or not. It's hard at times.
No worries I'm glad any insight I can give helps.
Thanks! I know I realized that about trying to become psychic and "read" his behavior before and after the relationship. I have wished he would call anyway, just to let me know he had cared for me, but I made it clear no contact. I realized along the way that not cutting him out would have seriously held me back and kept me connected in a way that he would not have been. I don't know if he is quite that cold as a stone or if that is what he is wanting to project, but I made up my mind I am done. I saw him online today and busied myself reading other material, and found I had actually forgotten about it for a while. I believe if he really intended to talk again, he is capable of initiating, but that it is better that he doesn't for my progess's sake.
I know about returning to square one. If you are in my spot, it only serves to make you pine again and hope, or makes you angry, and in your case it probably reawakened some guilt and regret.
Don't despair! You had a weak moment, so what? You checked out your curiosity and now you know. Forgive yourself, it's really ok. Look it just strengthen's your resolve to NOT do it again cause it doesn't feel good, right? New rule: don't do anything that feels bad or you know will make you feel bad.
Me? I looked at his facebook photo album and who he's added every so often, then I finally realized that afterward, I have a headache, my chest hurts and I'm pissed! It hit me over the head that this feels awful, so don't friggin' do it. LOL.
I have spent the last week going to the beach, floating in the water, giving myself some peace. Writing all my crappy feelings in a journal, following breakup exercises in a book. I'm now in the middle of a vision board and realize how unfocused I became during and after the relationship, and how focused on him I was!! I need to get myself back and forget it. Every time I start the headachey feeling again, I picture myself floating in the ocean and it helps!
Go do something that makes you feel really good, and forgive yourself. It's hard with all these ups and downs, trust me I know! I still have them.
I'm really glad to have gotten a chance to get your insights and support. :)
thanks for the advise. I have three journals that I have used up so far with this situation. Being the one leaving was hard. I can't speak for anyone else but to give up the comfortabliity that you was used to is a lot. I tried to be strong but it still hurts. And foolish me I called and it made all the so called work I did to get over him come undone. We as women are more sensitive then men. Some find it easy to find someone else and not give a thought to the one they left or was left by.
Your anger is ok you are doing the right things. I hear exercising works to release some of the other feelings so try it and see.
One thing I can say is get out of your head. I mean don't worry about what he is or isn't doing because it is only going to drive you up the wall. I was doing the same thing and that is why I called and now I am back to square one.
I hope that helps