Comments on: Through the Storm http://www.first30days.com/blog/main/2009/08/through-the-storm/ A blog dedicated to helping you change your life positively. Mon, 28 Nov 2011 01:13:35 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: First30Days http://www.first30days.com/blog/main/2009/08/through-the-storm/comment-page-1/#comment-81 First30Days Fri, 28 Aug 2009 14:41:31 +0000 http://stagingblog.first30days.com/?p=935#comment-81 I am so sorry that you are in so much pain. Out of every experience, good comes: this must be an article of faith. God never challenges us with anything he does not believe we can handle - and emerge as a stronger person the other side. Letting these waves of despair wash over you, acknowledging your grief and anguish and recognising your despair is, I believe, the first step towards healing. Eventually you will find a firm stone in this maelstrom on which you can put your weight, and pick yourself up, to emerge better and stronger than ever before. And even more able to have a beneficial effect on those in your life. Shared by hopeisland. I am so sorry that you are in so much pain. Out of every experience, good comes: this must be an article of faith. God never challenges us with anything he does not believe we can handle – and emerge as a stronger person the other side. Letting these waves of despair wash over you, acknowledging your grief and anguish and recognising your despair is, I believe, the first step towards healing. Eventually you will find a firm stone in this maelstrom on which you can put your weight, and pick yourself up, to emerge better and stronger than ever before. And even more able to have a beneficial effect on those in your life.

Shared by hopeisland.

]]> By: First30Days http://www.first30days.com/blog/main/2009/08/through-the-storm/comment-page-1/#comment-80 First30Days Fri, 28 Aug 2009 14:40:45 +0000 http://stagingblog.first30days.com/?p=935#comment-80 Hello there, I do not have any ways to judge or know what happens with you and really is not necessary at all to know the details. But what I can say to you, based on myself is that the most divine and difficult path concerning ourSELF is giving us a chance to have a space in the world, a place to be authentic and to really listen our heart. When we try to be ourselves we fear that others will judge us and may not like us at all anymore. And you know why? Because people who passes much time helping others are generally not much aware of its own needs and finally the others think that we are completely happy, with no wishes or problems or things that hurt us, after all, we were always nice to everybody and not much authentic with our heart... But it is worthy to change all and start to give more importance to what we really want and want to be. It needs courage even to lose this Status of nice helpers and non problematic and practically perfect person we always had after all we always were reasonable, nice, gentle, etc. As you said we can continue being reasonable, nice, gentle, etc but now looking at us as well. Well, I am still in the beginning of my own new way to be and I do wish you go well, accepting your limits in relation of being too much nice to others and giving a chance to your own deep dreams and to your heart... Shared by apasquali. Hello there,
I do not have any ways to judge or know what happens with you and really is not necessary at all to know the details.
But what I can say to you, based on myself is that the most divine and difficult path concerning ourSELF is giving us a chance to have a space in the world, a place to be authentic and to really listen our heart. When we try to be ourselves we fear that others will judge us and may not like us at all anymore. And you know why? Because people who passes much time helping others are generally not much aware of its own needs and finally the others think that we are completely happy, with no wishes or problems or things that hurt us, after all, we were always nice to everybody and not much authentic with our heart…
But it is worthy to change all and start to give more importance to what we really want and want to be. It needs courage even to lose this Status of nice helpers and non problematic and practically perfect person we always had after all we always were reasonable, nice, gentle, etc.
As you said we can continue being reasonable, nice, gentle, etc but now looking at us as well.
Well, I am still in the beginning of my own new way to be and I do wish you go well, accepting your limits in relation of being too much nice to others and giving a chance to your own deep dreams and to your heart…

Shared by apasquali.

]]>