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09 aug

HOW DO I TRUST SOMEONE WHO HAS LIED TO ME

I AM GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE AND MY STEP DAUGHTER WHO SAYS SHE LOVES ME AND SAYS SHE CONSIDERS ME HER MOM (HER MOM DIED WHEN SHE WAS 6 YEARS OLD). I HAVE CAUGHT HER IN SEVERAL LIES AND SHE HAS ADMITTED THAT SHE HAS BEEN SPYING FOR HER DAD. HE WAS THE ONE WHO HAD AN AFFAIR AND EMOTIONALLY AND VERBALLY ABUSED ME. I AM MORE FINANCIALLY SECURE THAN HE IS SO WHENEVER I PURCHASED SOMETHING NEW OR DO SOMETHING TO MY HOME SHE TELLS HIM. I HAVE TO KEEP THE COMMUNICATION OPEN WITH HER BECAUSE OF MY GRANDDAUGHTER BUT IT IS HARD TO BE AROUND HER AND ALWAYS HAVE TO BE ON “GUARD” FOR WHAT I DO AND SAY. HER AUNT SAYS THINGS WILL BE BETTER ONCE THE DIVORCE IS FINAL BECAUSE SHE IS SURE HE IS ASKING HER TO DO THIS “SPYING” AND EVENTUALLY MY STEP DAUGHTER WILL REALIZE IT. BUT IN THE MEANTIME HOW DO I TRUST HER? OR DON’T I?

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Posted by First 30 Days on August 9th, 2009 in Personal Stories | 1 comments

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  • Dear Friend, Even tho, this is 2010 and you wrote in 2009, I am still going to share a bit of advise ~~ which you probably know already by now. No, do not trust her and it really is not the end of the world either. Be kind and cordial that is all that is necessary with your relationship. And as far as your shopping goes, you do what you want to do and if she needs to report this–then let her.. If you are financially Blessed then enjoy your fruits of harvest–you earned it you deserve it! You do what makes YOU Happy and who cares what others say or think… You go girl!!! Love and light…

    — Added by twobrowneyes on March 6th, 2010

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