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looking for love in a loveless world
today your blog is about patience, that is my life i am 54 and single and have to have been patient my whole life.. when i was ten my maternal grandma died 4 days after my birthday and my grandpa lived with us for 18 months till he died. the man was crippled with severe RA and as a young man i sat at his feet and learned about life. when my grandma died i was mad at God and started drinking little did i know it would not stop for 30 years. in 84 i broke my low back and that started me on an 11 year odyssey of drug addiction. all this time i was waiting for someone in my life. and 23 years later i am still waiting my friends say i have to much patience but i have learned from my 91 year old aunt that things happen in Gods time not ours. the old saying patience is a virtue is true but waiting can be very lonesome. but the best thing about loneliness is it teaches yo u patience
Shared by: mysticwolf55 on 9/17/09
Hello mysticwolf,
A few things i'd love to share with you if you really want to grow and find love
1) Stop telling the story of what happened...and start telling the story of what you want. Set intentions for the future now. how you want it to be. Whatever you put your attention, focus, time, energy, words on, expands...so start doing that for things you want to really manifest now.
2) Everything is about what you believe- so if you think its a loveless world, that is what your mind is going to look for. The mind always wants to be right. But i ask you- do you want to feel love or do you want to be right?
3) The best way to have something or get something is to give it to others. So, if you want to feel love, start giving love to everyone- anyone you meet at anytime. We all want love. When you give it, it comes back to you. Look for beauty, look for love around you.
You are an expression of love, you've just forgotten that.
4) Know that your longing for someone in your life, is really a longing for you to totally love yourself first. No one can fill that gap for you, no one can make you happy. You can be even more lonely in a relationship that by yourself. Sounds like you are very brave, so start doing some of the inner work of healing, self responsibility, start asking God or whatever you name your Higher Self to help you. Dont let your mind take you into the garbage and have you believe its a loveless world. Take control of what your mind is saying is the truth. Now you're in charge.
your homework is to everyday set an intention to love and serve and help others...in anyway life wants to present it to you....watch what happens.
When you are love, become love, give love, you become irresistible to others...including that special someone who is looking for you.
Sending you tons of LOVE,
Ariane