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Is She Really My Friend?
A friend of mine invited me to go on a holiday with her and a few friends a couple of months ago. I recently found out that the trip is planned with the other friends but I was not included. I realized that I was no longer invited. I am so angry and hurt I don't know what to do. I don't have a lot of close friends so this has really thrown me. I trusted her and I feel like I have been tossed aside.
Am I crazy and blowing this out of proportion?
I definently agree that you should talk to her about it but if there isnt a good reason why you were not included then I would definently say she is not a close friend since she had invited you and then backed out. You want to think the best about people but you also do not want to let people walk all over you or toss you aside like your not important enough. I have dealt with many friends like that and I realized I am worth more than being treated like that.
I totally understand your feelings. I think i might feel the same if it happened to me. But have you already talked to your friend about it? Maybe there's a good reason for it?
Or if there's not, you can talk about it. I think that makes you feel a lot better. If she's really your friend, she can explain it... But that's my opinion of course.....
xxx